Last week we had up close and personal encounters with gray whales. The trip is now coming to an end…
The whales were the focus of many dinner conversations that evening as each person breathlessly narrated his/her experience, and the volume and excitement rose whenever mention was made of actually touching one of the gray whales. Our group learned that gray whales had been dubbed “devil fish” by the whalers and sailors who used to hunt and kill them, and I heard the term used by multiple people throughout dinner. We had been told many stories of how aggressive the whales were and how they would charge, and sometimes, capsize the boats (quite the opposite of what we had experienced that very same day).
Looking back, one can certainly understand the whales’ actions. Although their calving grounds may be protected now, they weren’t always. (Here I use the term “protected” loosely, as even in protected waters, they are constantly surrounded by tourists and other humans both as a way to protect the species and as a source of income). These “devil fish” were fighting for their lives and the lives of their young, so their “aggressive” behavior was their only means of defense. Members of my group seemed to toss the term around as part of their newly acquired knowledge, but not once did I hear further conversation regarding the human actions that led to the defensive behavior of the whales (I know, I know, I’m being too sensitive here, but still, someone could have at least offered a little sympathy for what the whales went through right? 🙂 ).
The interactions with the whales made me reflect about a variety of things, and questions tumbled through my head. What draws the whales to us? Are they just as curious about us as we are about them despite the horrific treatment of their ancestors? Do they leave with a new understanding of humans? How do they see us? I began to think about their communication and social systems, and wonder what their lives are like in the sea; a world that is both foreign and familiar to us humans. Personally, I think one reason the ocean and its inhabitants appeal is because of the magic and mystery that we have discovered, and have yet to uncover, from it. However, I also think we should remember that we are visitors and should respect our presence as such. I like to think that we live and learn (hopefully), but some of the atrocities humankind has committed – and still commits – against ourselves and other species, floors me. I understand subsistence hunting, human safety, etc., but as humans, we seem to be prone to extreme or excessive measures. How often did we, or do we, truly hunt and kill only to survive – especially nowadays? Rather than watching and learning, we impose ourselves into and on every space we encounter. Many species have been around for literally millions of years. Isn’t there a chance that they have something to offer if we would take the time to try to understand? Each being has its own uniqueness (or intrinsic value) that should be appreciated, or at the very least, acknowledged.
![Sea lion - just liked his silhouette!](https://emmarayeauthor.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/baja-sea-lion.jpg?w=300&h=225)
Sea lion – just liked the silhouette he offered!
Once I returned home, I realized that I didn’t take nearly as many pictures as I would have liked, but perhaps these moments are not meant to be captured on film. Perhaps they are meant as a reminder to simply be and connect with what is around you. A piece of me was slightly jealous of some of the photos taken by those with cameras that cost as much as the trip itself (okay, maybe that’s a slight exaggeration, but there was some pretty cool camera equipment!). Yes, some of those images were fantastic, but did the photographers have the opportunity to see beyond the camera lens? These types of moments are so fleeting and hard to capture, that perhaps they should just be enjoyed. While I may not have proof of the mother and calf who surfaced so close to our Zodiac that day, whenever I see or hear of a gray whale, I find myself instantly transported back to that exact moment when I was eye to eye with beings from a different world and still feel the same awestruck reaction.